People ask me why am i so damn 'chat' judgemental. I'm particular harsh on the subject of tact in the social environment. When i see somebody doing something out of the normal social convention, unknowingly making it awkward or hurting/offending someone, I would have F1 racer type thoughts in my head instantly.
For this particular issue of tact, I can say that the reason i'm particularly harsh is because of my past. Since I used to not care what other people think, brutal truth and all, it took me awhile to get out of those habits and join the lane of tactful people. (ironically, NOW i care too much about what other people think. Its like a freaking pendulum swinging from one end to the other)
Even then, more often than not, I still screw up because it doesn't come naturally to me. So when I see other people doing it, it's like looking into a mirror of my past self. Who likes to be reminded of that?
Dear God
10 years ago
haha. who said u're so damn 'chat' judgmental wor? I think all this while you were tactful enough not to express ur judgmental nature directly to the ppl u are against. well, that is what i see being ur fren, when u were against me.. haha.. is was so direct and obvious. mayb i was just that out of the social convention back in form 1. hahahah
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